we tend to forget..

I heard my friends were discussing about how "beauty is not subjective at all". They were saying that what's  beautiful to the eyes is actually pretty obvious. I wouldn't say they're wrong, but at the same time I wouldn't say they're correct either. As I fail to make my point to them, I guess I can always write my opinion in here somewhere..(wow, that sounds pathetic..)

Oh well,

They were saying that it's obvious that "tall" is obviously will be chosen over "short". That's how most people look at it.

As I was hearing and churning all this in, I was thinking.."oh..no no no.."
Did they even know what it feels like to be tall? Me, being a tall girl (as always), actually did (used to) reduce my overall confidence. Why?

because even boys are shorter than me..hahaha

Don't ask me why, because I don't know why. That's WHY.

Sadly, as I was trying to make my point to them, they didn't make any much effort to hear what I was about to say and it left me with a piece of broken heart..(YOU WISH!!) Instead, they just cut me up and say "yeahh I understand..."

well, that's not the first time and I don't think it will ever be the last time.

FYI, I was disagreeing with them on certain points because I USED TO think straight hair is more beautiful over curly hair (mine's curly..), darker skin is prettier, etc..*I have different points of view about physical beauty compared to most people around me*

However, I was agreeing to them that "not all beauty are subjective" by saying that it's all about the deeds we do. I mean, Do people say feeding the poor is not good? Are reading Quran and understanding it's meanings are worthless? following the sunnah doesn't do us any good? Do you get what I mean?

ISLAM is beautiful.

The point is, put yourself in someone else's shoes and TRY to understand them. At least, that's what you do when you read books, or even watch history channel..(well I do that...)

Don't ever generalised the whole thing the way you see it..only artists do that..and we're freakin scientist-to-be..

Instead, try to look at the whole thing the way it is..

"forgotten but unforgiven" > who the hell invented this phrase? who are we to not forgive someone? we make mistakes too..the real phrase should be.. "forgotten yet still asking for forgiveness"